I once read somebody who called Elie Wiesel "a professional whiner." I remember thinking, "Wow, that is a disproportionate response." Or at least, "Man, that's not fair."
All my life, I have relied on people with more insight, skill, and wisdom than I have to help me maneuver my way through this confusing, over-informed, unprincipled world. I'm not ashamed of that because I have no choice. You do it too, and so does everybody else. It arises from that world-famous "human condition" you hear so much about.